Caught boyfriend on dating website
If hes hard on you about what youve been doing, he is definitely doing that out of guilt because it makes him feel better to question your activity, makes him feel like what hes doing isnt so bad, red flag!
From a 47 year guy who cares and was married 24 years to one If hes hard on you about what youve been doing, he is definitely doing that out of guilt because it makes him feel better to question your activity, makes him feel like what hes doing isnt so bad, red flag!
From a 47 year guy who cares and was married 24 years to one Just dumped mine for same reason and because he chose to not go to therapy with me.
He obviously wasn't ready for a committed relationship after five years.
I saw the extremely sexually explicit messages he sent to other women. Are you willing to accept all these things so you can be with the “love” of your life? Considering the time, I haven’t really invested yet.Hey everyone, So I (27F) started dating this guy (30M) about 5 months ago. At the very least, when you bring it up to him he should be man enough to hear you out. We find ways to bring spark back into our relationship.As of 4 months ago we decided to be in an exclusive relationship. I had asked him if anything was wrong, If he was happy, etc., but he said nothing was wrong. I'm definitely reconsidering giving him another chance. That is the *only* reason that I would say to dumb him. We have a 4 year old, a house, very demanding jobs. We pick up a new hobby that doesnt involve hurting the other person. We communicate when we are bored and we fix it rather than ever seek excitement from someone else.shouldnt he have wanted to distance himself from her if she was a temptation? as for the dating site, his excuse was that he had been wanting to propose to me but wanted to sleep with a woman first. i am 26 and he is 27 and maybe we got serious too young. but what kills me is he has always been the one pushing ny level of commitment in our relationship. he gave me the password n i could see that he had msgd women trying to meet for no strings sex.i left him for all of a week before i came back because this just seemed so out of character.
He even sent his phone number to one (and am unsure if they contacted each other through text after that). TL; DR caught boyfriend of 4 months on multiple dating sites sending sexually explicit messages. It's a pathetic excuse, and it's not even that, because so many other people suffer boredom and yet manage not to cheat on their partners, amazing as that sounds. He's now decided it's past, done and forgotten, and rounds on you if there's so much as a mention. I'll be having a discussion with him about this in the morning. Though if I see him as the guy that I would really fall for, I might still ask myself - is he worth it? I did end up asking whether he was bored with me, and he kept saying no.