Dating a confirmed bachelor Melayu sexual
Women much younger are creeped out by these much older men approaching them (there are exceptions, but they are just that....exceptions).Men enter their 50’s and 60’s still looking for someone not older than 40 so they can at least get one child out of her (presuming he is successful finding that rare woman who wants to marry a man whom she might get a few good years with before being left alone to raise the children). Too often men use their financial situation as an excuse to put off marriage.A confirmed bachelor is not too anxious to take on the responsibility of being the head of the household and breadwinner.He feels it is an old-fashioned notion for men to provide in a single income family.#5 Hot or Not: looking for love in all the wrong places.Apart from the barrage of questions about their lifestyles, they face suspicion from every nook and cranny.The pressure for them to conform to society’s expectations of marriage is overwhelming and often suffocating.He knows these won’t come, but it sure helps him justify his indecision.#2 - Why buy the cow when I can get the milk for free?
Women want to be loved with exclusivity and affection, and that is their true security. Are you making a good living that can support a family?
Why is there so much over-thinking about if God wants you to be married?
Historically, the majority of people born into this world marry and have children. Rare is the vocation to the priesthood, religious life or (even rarer) consecrated single life. He is simply in the state he arrived in from his mother’s womb; an unmarried man.
Too many men waste a tremendous amount of time because they are not sure what God wants.
All men should pursue marriage until they get a call to serve God and His people as a celibate priest, religious or single man.
As I said, this is a list of symptoms of Confirmed Bachelor Syndrome. So no ladies, all men are NOT pigs, nor are they purposely trying to hurt you.