Dating at college
It satisfied both of our needs without the pressure of a relationship.
But soon, he got abusive, saying he wanted nothing to do with me sober and then asking to have drunken sex. I think that friends-with-benefits can work, but you have to treat each other like friends.
– Hans*I’ll do the hook-up thing for a while, get tired of it, get a girlfriend, get tired of being a relationship, and then do the hook-up thing again.
– Mark*Friends With Benefits I think dating still exists to a degree in college, but it's intermingled with the hook-up culture.
Hooking up is superficial and the human aspect is completely lost.
I tend to go on dates and hook up at the beginning of a relationship, which seems to work well for me.
–Chloe*I met this guy through a mutual friend and we started hooking up.
– Sarah*Hooking up does seem fun, but I prefer the consistency and dependability of always having someone who will be there at the end of the day.
– Liza*Restless Hearts When I was part of the hook-up culture, all I wanted was a boyfriend.
Don't lie to one another about relationship-y things.