It’s normal if the recovery process will be a bit too long.
It may seem to you that you should totally avoid Ukrainian women from now.
The following dates can be more casual and simple but not the first one.
Your concrete outfit can depend on the place you chose and your girl’s style, but a few basic rules are crucial: be tidy; wear only new clothes; wash your hair; shave well (unless you’re a Hollywood macho who looks stunning when unshaved).
Maybe your ex-girlfriend had too considerable flaws or you didn’t have a possibility to adapt to Ukrainian mentality in general.
Some girls are originally from this territory or from Crimea so they really need big positive changes in their life being on the edge.
As to the others, it’s hard to generalize but the majority of them don’t mind changing the environment and adapting to something totally new.
So, there should always be a certain strategy about the first date.
Never even enter the restaurant or the room where your Ukrainian beauty is waiting for you, without this clear and well-built strategy.
Don’t be afraid to initiate your breakup if you have more profound reasons for that than a typical thought about a greener grass somewhere else.