Dating women 20 years younger
Making the most of being an older man with a younger woman The fact is, she fell for you, not a younger guy, and you have to play up your strengths without overcompensating or displaying any insecurities.
If she’s dating an older man, there’s probably a reason, and the best you can do in this situation is make the most of what you have and who you are.
Use your sexual sophistication to give her what easily may be her first true orgasm, and have her begging to come back for more. Yes, you’re older, you probably have a better career than any of the younger guys she knows–and consequently, a lot more money.
However, don’t try to take advantage of this fact to secure her affections.
She’s hoping for the benefit of years of experience and the sensitivity it imparts… [Read: When do age differences matter in relationships?She will feel important and worthy of listening to, and will definitely be ready to take things a step further. If you’re lucky enough to progress the relationship to the bedroom, then you’re in a fantastic position to consolidate your superiority over the younger man.It is usually the case that the twentysomething male has a “jump straight in, genitals first and only” kind of approach.They will prattle on about themselves incessantly, until the woman they admire is ready to jump out of the nearest window in a last-ditch effort to escape.A conversation should be a two-way street with attempts to solicit information from the other person, and it should involve as much listening as talking–if not more. His levels of empathy and patience have strengthened over time and will prove an invaluable tool in any attempt to woo the object of one’s desires.
It’s every older guy’s dream to have a young, beautiful little thing hanging off his arm on the way to dinner or another social function.