I am dating a muslim girl internet dating rejection email
Sadly, he is not being respectful of his own religion.As the rule of religion states: a Muslim man cannot marry a hindu woman, nor can hindu man marry a Muslim woman. Upon your voluntary conversion to Islam, you would both would be allowed to get married.I also been to malay engagement parties, I thought I will feel terribly uncomfortable but amazingly, I am OK with it. It was a month before the fasting month, my mom said I will never be able to fast. My parents started out being OK with my bf, they brought him branded stuffs .. With discouragement, I felt sad but I never did gave him on my bf. I am asking these questions now because I have already engaged in certain activities and do not wish to continue out of my desire to respect the man I am dating.I have read other posts and am concerned that I have already broken the laws of Islam with this man and want to know what I can do to atone for them.Praise be to Allah The Muslims are unanimously agreed that it is not permissible for a Muslim woman to marry a non-Muslim, whether he is Jewish, Christian or anything else, because Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning): “And give not (your daughters) in marriage to Al-Mushrikoon till they believe (in Allah Alone) and verily, a believing slave is better than a (free) Mushrik (idolater, etc.), even though he pleases you.Those (Al-Mushrikoon) invite you to the Fire, but Allah invites (you) to Paradise and Forgiveness by His Leave, and makes His Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) clear to mankind that they may remember” [al-Baqarah 1] “…then if you ascertain that they are true believers, send them not back to the disbelievers, they are not lawful (wives) for the disbelievers nor are the disbelievers lawful (husbands) for them” [al-Mumtahanah ].
If a Muslim woman marries a non-Muslim man, knowing the ruling thereon, then she is a zaaniyah and is subject to the hadd punishment for zina.I know from the start if I was to be with my boyfriend, there will be many obstacles but we just get along so well that we never thought of giving up.The problem is I do not know if I am ready to be a muslim or not, because I love food.I lived in Singapore, there're alot of food there are not HALAL. Honestly, FOOD is the only thing I am concerned about.Another problem will be that I do not know how to speak malay.
Is it permissible for me to marry a Christian man, if my religious commitment is safe and I am confident that this will not affect my Islam?